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What do Funeral Directors do?
Funeral Directors are caregivers and administrators. They make arrangements
for the transportation of the deceased, complete all necessary paperwork,
and implement the choices made by the family regarding the funeral and
final disposition of the body. Funeral Directors are listeners, advisors
and supporters. They have experience assisting the bereaved in coping
with death. Funeral Directors are trained to answer questions about grief,
recognize when a person is having difficulty coping and recommend sources
of professional help. |
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If someone dies in a hospital, what happens next?
The hospital will notify the family once the death has occurred. Depending
upon hospital policy, either the family or the hospital will need to contact Copeland
Funeral Home. |
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If someone dies unexpectedly at home, what should
I do?
Call 911. Emergency personnel will access the situation and gather information
from the family. The medical personnel will then notify the coroner
and the person’s primary care physician. The coroner will then determine
whether or not further investigation into the cause of death
will be needed. If no further investigation is needed, the medical personnel
will contact Copeland
Funeral Home. If further investigation is needed, the coroner will
contact Copeland Funeral Home when they have completed their
examination. |
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If
someone dies at home and is under hospice
care, what should I do?
The family will notify hospice once the death has occurred. A hospice nurse
will then come to the home and make sure that all legal requirements are
taken care of, such as contacting the coroner and doctor. The hospice
nurse will then contact Copeland Funeral Home. The hospice nurse
will help in guiding the Funeral Director in the timing of the removal
if more time is needed for family and friends to say good-bye to their
loved one. |
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If someone dies out of state or out of town, can
my local funeral home help?
Yes. Call 412-264-1390. Copeland Funeral Home will contact
a funeral home in the area where the death has occurred to aid
in the removal, preparation, securing the death certificate and
transportation to our facility. By having us manage these arrangements,
we can often save families time and money. We will need your
help in gathering information needed for the completion of the
death certificates. These vital records will then be faxed to
the aiding funeral home in order to bring your loved one home
as quickly as possible. |
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If a death occurs in the middle of the night,
on a weekend or on a
holiday, should I call my Funeral
Director at that time?
Yes. Most Funeral Directors are available 24 hours a day, 7 days
a week, and 365 days a year. |
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What if I don’t belong to a particular
religious group? Can a
minister, priest or rabbi still be
contacted to perform the services?
Yes. A family member may be able to suggest one that they are
familiar with, and if not, our Funeral Director will be able
to suggest and contact an officiant to perform the service. |
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Can I preplan my funeral?
Many people want to relieve their families from the burden of
having to make big decisions during such a stressful time. Preplanning
your funeral may help alleviate some stress by letting family
members know what kind of funeral goods and services you desire.
It is also a good idea to put monies aside for such an event.
Prices for services and merchandise selected are guaranteed for
the life of the contract if prepaid. Cash advanced items such
as newspaper notices and death certificates can be estimated
into the total cost and have money set aside for their charges,
but they aren’t guaranteed. |
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What other options besides burial for final disposition
are available?
Three major choices for final disposition would be burial, entombment
or cremation. Entombment is placement of the human remains in
an above ground housing unit, such as a crypt in a mausoleum.
Cremation is the process of turning the human remains into a
fine powder by the introduction of high temperatures and the
pulverization of the solid substances left behind. The cremated
remains of a loved one, depending on faith, could be placed in
an urn, scattered, buried, incorporated into wearable jewelry
or a multitude of other creative options, such as the eternal
reef and other ecology conservation projects. |
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I want to be cremated, but want to give my family
a chance to say
good-bye. Is a viewing possible even
with a cremation?
Yes, a viewing and even a service in church is possible. The family
will have the option of either purchasing a cremation casket
or renting a casket for the viewing purposes. Once visitation
and services are over, our staff will arrange for the cremation
to take place. |
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What other options are available
if I decide to go with cremation?
Cremation doesn’t have to be a quick and private process.
Along with the option of having a viewing and service in church,
memorial services are becoming increasingly popular. A memorial
service is a funeral service that is held after the cremation
process has been completed. The service may be held in a funeral
home, church or other gathering place, with or without an urn
present. |
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Can I have a viewing if I am an organ donor?
Absolutely. Organ donation does not hinder the preparation of
human remains. Once an organ procurement group, such as CORE,
has completed their organ recovery procedures, Copeland Funeral
Home will be notified as the funeral home of choice. |
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What are some ways that I can personalize
a funeral service?
Personalization can be achieved from a variety of ways. The deceased
person’s favorite music can be played during calling hours
or incorporated into the service. Memorabilia such as a favorite
fishing pole, golf club, or stuffed animal, as well as crafts
such as quilts, doilies, clothing or other hand made items can
be displayed. A memory board displaying family photos may be
constructed by family members. A photo can be added to prayer
cards or to an obituary in the newspaper. A person’s favorite
cologne or perfume and make-up can be used by the funeral director
during preparation. Bagpipers, military personnel, and a dove
release can also be incorporated into the service. |
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What is the purpose of embalming?
There are actually three reasons why we embalm. Embalming provides
a means of sanitation of the human remains and protects the general
viewing public from disease and illness. It also provides a means
of preserving the human remains, so that there may be a delay
between the time of death and final disposition for viewing and
service purposes. Lastly embalming helps restore the appearance
of a body that may have been disfigured by a traumatic death
or illness. |
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Do I have to be embalmed?
No, although most states do require embalming when death is caused
by a contagious disease, when remains are to be transported from
one state to another by common carrier, or if final disposition
is not to be made within a prescribed number of hours. |
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Do I have to have a vault?
Vaults are not required by law, but most cemeteries require vaults
to be used to preserve cemetery landscape and protect the caskets
from damage that heavy machinery, such as machinery used for
digging the graves, may cause. |
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Do I need to purchase an urn?
No. The purchase of an urn is entirely up to the family. Cremated
remains will return from the crematory in a temporary container;
a standard box wrapped in brown paper, if no urn is purchased. |
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Can I be viewed in my own clothing?
Of course you can. Almost any type of clothing is acceptable,
whether it is a suit or dress or pajamas or a favorite sports
jersey and jeans. All clothing should be accompanied by undergarments,
as well, just as the person would have worn them during their
life. Clothing such as a variety of burial gowns for the ladies
and suits for the men are also available for purchase at Copeland
Funeral Home. |
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Who is responsible for composing the death notice
or obituary?
Funeral Directors, with the help and guidance of family members,
are usually responsible for composing an obituary, but the family
is more than welcome to compose the entire obituary if desired. |
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How do I go about ordering a death certificate?
When the death occurs, our staff at Copeland Funeral Home will
aid in the ordering of certified death certificates by obtaining
a cause of death from the doctor. We will need vital information,
such as the deceased person’s parent’s names (including
mother’s maiden name), date and place of birth and social
security number to complete the death certificate form. |
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How do I go about ordering more death certificates
if I need to?
Just call 412-264-1390. The staff at Copeland’s will
be able to assist you with ordering as many death certificates
as you may need. We will ask questions to complete an order form
to be sent to our Vital Records Department, located in New Castle,
PA. Mailing the request form will take 4-6 weeks to obtain death
certificates. You will need to supply a photocopy of ID plus
a personal check in the amount required. Faxing the request form
will take 5-7 business days to receive the death certificates
and will require the use of a credit card to purchase them. There
is also a one-time surcharge for the use of a credit card to
purchase death certificates. |
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What government agencies give benefits?
Some agencies that may provide financial assistance would be Social
Security, Veteran, Union and Retirement Agencies. The Copeland staff
would be able to aid in filing for such assistance or help in
finding answers to questions that you may have about such agencies. |
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Once a death has occurred how do I get veteran’s
benefits?
With a photocopy of the Veteran’s Honorable Discharge papers
and a certified copy of a death certificate, the Copeland staff
will complete the paperwork needed to get you benefits provided
to deceased veteran’s family, such as free death certificates,
a United States flag, and a military grave marker and possibly
a minimal monetary compensation. Veterans are also eligible for
military honors, which would include two military personnel folding
and presenting the flag to the next of kin while playing a recording
of “Taps”. |
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If I have lost the Honorable discharge paper
needed for the
Veteran’s benefits, how do I go about
getting one?
Through a series of general questions about the deceased veteran,
such as date of birth and social security number, the Copeland
Funeral Home will be able to assist you in obtaining a copy
of Honorable Discharge. |
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What purpose does a funeral serve and why should
I have a public viewing?
A funeral is the customary way to recognize death and its finality.
They are a ritual for the living to show honor and respect for
the dead and to help survivors begin in the grief process. Public
viewings are a part of many cultural and ethnic traditions. Viewing
aids the grief process by helping the bereaved recognize the
reality of death. |
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Should children be allowed to attend viewings?
Viewing is encouraged for children, but it is ultimately left
up to the parent’s discretion. The child should also be
given the choice of whether or not to attend. The child should
be properly prepared for what she or he will see and how the
adults around him or her may act. There are children’s
books that may be helpful in explaining the process. |